Sunday, February 18

Top 10 Tips For Moving House


Moving house is a big ordeal for anyone. There's a lot of change, organisation and work that goes into packing and moving. Sure, it's an exciting time, but I wish I'd known these simple little things in advance! Having moved a few times over the last few years, this is my best advice if you're moving.

1 | Give Yourself Time
Once I was ready to hand in my notice with my Letting Agents, I found out I had to give four weeks from the 20th of the month. It was the 10th at the time I sent the email, allowing me 6 weeks to actually move. I am so glad I allowed this time, I really needed it. I probably could have done it all in four weeks, or even two, but the extra time has allowed me to get the new place in shape, move things when I had a chance, and not rushed the cleaning and 'end of tenancy' process too.

2 | Write a 'Change Of Address' List
I used the notes app (there's a 'make a checklist' tick button you can use to tick off when you're done, and it syncs with icloud for phone or computer!) and wrote down all the people and places I needed to change my address with. Here is an example of some of mine:
  • COUNCIL TAX 
  • ELECTORAL ROLL 
  • DRIVING LICENSE 
  • CAR FINANCE 
  • BANK ACCOUNT 
  • CREDIT CARD 
  • BOURNEMOUTH WATER 
  • WESSEX WATER 
  • BRITISH GAS 
  • BT INTERNET 
  • CAR INSURANCE 
  • HOUSE INSURANCE 
  • DOCTORS 
  • DENTIST 
  • MAGAZINE SUBSCRIPTIONS
  • EE PHONE 
  • ROYAL MAIL REDIRECTION 
  • BOOTS 
  • SAINSBURYS NECTAR 
  • TESCO CLUBCARD 
  • PAYPAL 
  • AMAZON 
  • ASOS 
  • ITUNES & APPLE 
  • SPOTIFY 
  • GOVERNMENT GATEWAY SELF-EMPLOYED
  • OPTICIANS & CONTACT LENS
3 | Take Photos Of Your Gas & Meter Boxes
It's easy to write down your reading, but what if you lose them? I found taking a photo of the boxes and saving them to my camera roll has been an essential. It's also absolute proof you aren't lying about the numbers too, just in case it's queried. I also took photos of my empty flat when I finished cleaning, so I can refer back and cross-reference how I left it, with my Schedule Of Condition.

4 | Declutter As You Pack
The packing process is quite simple really, but if you can try and declutter as you pack, this will save you so much time. Have a bag for charity or friends and family, and donate old clothes you no longer need. I gave all my unwanted skincare and beauty products to my Mum and her staff, so I know they're going to good homes.


5 | Vacuum, Sandwich, Storage & IKEA Bags
Vacuum bags are an absolute moving house MUST. You can get these everywhere (I've had some from Wilko and Primark) and they allow you to suck the air out with the hoover to make them smaller. Perfect for bedding, pillows and towels. Next, sandwich bags are an essential for things like wires, screws for furniture and jewellery. I have these on hand when I'm packing, and label the bags accordingly. Storage Bags are great for coats and clothes, I picked mine up super cheap in Home Bargains, and transported all my clothing with them. Finally, IKEA bags. They're 40p and so handy for so many miscellaneous things which don't need boxes. I put some clothes in them too. I love them when I move house, and for storing things in the loft too.

6 | Keep Clothes On Hangers
On my last move, I did actually take everything off hangers because I was having a new wardrobe built and couldn't hang them straight away, but I was also being extra ruthless in my decluttering as I had far too many clothes! However, sometimes it's actually easier to keep your clothes on the hangers. Just pop a black bin bag over the top (make a hole for the hooks), and transport them straight from one wardrobe, to the next. Saves so much time!

7 | Make an 'Essentials' Bag & 'Important Things' Box
There is nothing more frustrating than trying to find a charger, important document, set of spare keys or for me, memory cards and batteries for work, and not being able to locate them. It happens almost every time I move, so I'd highly recommend making a bag of essentials items of clothes you need during your move, along with a box (I like the foldable ones without a lid) that has your bits and bobs that you might need access to quickly.

8 | Buy Boxes With Handles
A lot of people say "don't buy boxes" and you can totally find some for free at Supermarkets etc however, I bought my own boxes from Argos this time and was much more satisfied with the quality and size of the boxes. I'm also using them to store things so they needed to be strong. The extra bonus was that they had handles, which made moving SO much easier. If your boxes don't have handles, cut some out on the sides...thank me later!

9 | Don't Make The Boxes Too Heavy
It's easy to fill a box to the top, but if you're packing heavy items, make sure you give it a quick check of how much it weighs. I packed my office things first, including books and folders, and it was so heavy I actually had to write 'HEAVY' on the box to remind myself I needed a hand with it. You also risk the box breaking which would be a total disaster, so try and keep the weight balanced. When I packed my beauty products, I used two or three smaller boxes as I knew it would get too heavy all in one.

10 | Tape Gun & Labelling Boxes
A tape gun is a huge game changer when you're ready to pack up, it saves so much time and faff trying to locate the end of the tape and scissors to cut it. You can pick up a tape gun in Supermarkets, with a roll of tape, for about £10. When you're ready to label up (you're gonna want sharpies here), make sure you write which room it's for, as well as roughly what's inside. When you get to the new place, it's great if you have several boxes which say 'Kitchen' for example, but you might want the mugs, plates and cutlery first, as they're a bit more of an essential than say condiments and pans. It's also worth writing 'FRAGILE', 'GLASS' or 'HEAVY' if these apply. Finally, if you're moving with more than one person, sometimes it's worth write your name on too.

I hope these helped at least one of you out there, and I wish you all the best of luck and happy memories with your move and new home!

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Friday, February 9

Saying Goodbye To My First Flat


I made the decision with Benji that I was going to move in, and 12 days later, I was almost fully moved and completely set up again. Once I plant a seed in my head, that's it, I'm going for it. There's no holding me back! I'm the type of person who likes to just get things done, so when I knew I had to move my whole life into boxes, along with semi-decorating the new place at the same time, I looked at it like one big challenge, which I broke down into lots of little tasks. I've been so busy organising, packing, buying new furniture, clearing out old furniture, de-cluttering, changing my address and basically moving my whole life into someone else's house, that it hadn't occurred to me how much I'd miss my little place. I was almost distracted from the emotional side of moving house, which wasn't something I hadn't experienced before. Is it finally time to say goodbye to my little home?

When I moved in 18 months ago, it was a bit of whirlwind. I moved pretty quickly from my dads, back to my mums, knowing full well I didn't want to stay there very long. It was just temporary until I found my own place. I envisioned I'd probably be at Mum's for 3-6 months, but within a month, we found somewhere for me. I completed the paperwork, got all the right references, paid the deposit and before I knew it, I was picking up the keys. I didn't have much time to unpack at my Mums, it happened SO fast. We even went to Ikea and picked, bought and built the furniture all in the same weekend of getting the keys. Once I was in, I was SO content. I had FINALLY settled somewhere. It wasn't hard to say goodbye to my parents houses at all. I'd spent the past few years yoyoing between them, and both their places didn't feel like home to me anymore. I was desperate for my own space and independence, and my Mum was very supportive in understanding this. I had just landed myself a new job in Marketing, and although it was extremely scary taking on lots of bills and new responsibilities, I was ready.

The first few months felt pretty normal. I didn't need to adjust to life by myself, it just felt right. I was so busy at my new job, that the flat became a little cosy place of peace and serenity. No one was telling me where to put my shoes, when to do my washing, what I could watch on TV or how loud I could have my music. One of the rules at my dad's was 'no showering after 10pm', because the noise of the boiler would wake him and the dog (which is fine, I was just grateful for a roof over my head and a hot shower, so no biggie!). But you can imagine the grin on my face, when I stood in my shower gone 10pm for the first time, letting the hot water just fall on me, with that satisfying feeling that I could actually shower when I liked, AND for however long I liked, because I was paying the water bill myself now. It was a real 'pinch me' moment that I'd been waiting for. I could do whatever the hell I liked. It was MY house!

I spent the next 8 months with hardly any time at my flat. I was working 40-50 hours a week, going to events at the weekend and dedicating my time to my work and career. Until at the end of 2016, I decided to quit my job and found some freelancing work to run alongside my blog and channel. Suddenly, I was working from home for the first time ever. I transformed my 'dining table' into a 'desk', and lived the next year in a really happy bubble of what it was like to be self-employed. The flat became my work space too. I filmed collaborations for brands, edited all my videos, walked to the local coffee shop, and got savvy in adding decorations and touches to make the place feel even more like mine. I broke a few rules and put more nails in the wall for photos than I should have, but I always kept in clean and tidy. I was really proud of my place, and it was very much loved.


Going back to my new found freedom, I honestly believed I'd be having parties and people over all the time when I moved in. I even bought some shot glasses, wine glasses and plenty of plates and cutlery, thinking I'd be the hostess with the mostess! How was I wrong! I ended up hardly hosting, at all. I never had a party, only one spontaneous pre-drinks gathering with my closest pals. I loved my space so much, that I didn't want to share it. I didn't want anyone coming into it. It was my little bubble and I liked it that way. Besides, it was quite small and as I was working from home all day, I liked accepting any invitation which got me out of the flat, rather than kept me in it. I spent most evenings curled up in a ball, in a blanket, with a cup of tea and Gossip Girl on Netflix. I was so happy.

When I met Benji, it was obvious that the space was too small for us. Over time, we fell into a routine and spent most weekends at his house. As a freelancer, I was more flexible with my work commitments, and ended up staying Sundays and working from his house on Mondays. Eventually, my time was almost split 50/50 between the houses, and we started talking about moving in together. I'm a strong believer that you can't put a time frame on when people are ready for certain milestones in relationships, I've seen some couples get married after only a few months of knowing each other, whilst others have been together over 10 years. I knew I wanted to live with Benji pretty early on, but I let fate and time do it's thing.

At the beginning of 2018, we re-assessed our goals and plans for the year ahead, and I have two big ones. I want to continue to travel, whilst saving for a house. Not an easy task!

In terms of circumstances, I know we're quite lucky. Benji lives with his dad, who's hardly ever at home due to his work and relationship. This leaves the house empty 95% of the time, so it made sense for me to move in. His parents were very supportive and welcoming, and I'm extremely grateful to his Dad for his generosity in letting me live in the house so cheaply. Because of this, I can now start saving for my share of our mortgage, whilst accepting opportunities to travel and continue freelancing. The goal is to obviously buy with Benji one day, but we are aware that plans and circumstances can change and who knows, we may even rent between buying, but we'll see how things go. If anything were to ever happen to us (god forbid!), I can always move back in to my Mum's or rent again, but we're optimistic and have faith in how solid our relationship is.

Life has a funny way of working out, I often just go with my gut feeling and hope for the best. Some opportunities are not what I had planned, but that's okay. I can't control the future too much, but I can get a better control on my finances, and set the foundations for the next stage of mine and Benji's relationship. It's a big step, moving in together, but when you know, you know!

For now, I have a few weeks left to wrap things up at my flat, there's some furniture to go into storage and some cleaning I need to do, along with having professional carpet and window cleaners in. My last official day is February 20th, when I know I'll cry happy and sad tears, because my flat really was one of the best things to happen to me over the last two years. Finding my feet into adulthood, seeing my relationship with Benji blossom, transitioning from full time to freelance, cooking actual meals for the first time and more importantly, learning a lot about myself. That flat was more than just a flat, it holds so many happy memories, it changed my world. Even though it's the right thing and I'm so excited to live with my boyfriend, I'll be so gutted to let it go.

I'll always have a piece of my heart there.

ps. If you're interested in my moving updates and new house, watch my Weekly Vlogs every Monday at 6pm!
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Monday, February 5

Schpoonz & Forx Restaurant Review | Bournemouth

I love living in Bournemouth. I shout about it from the rooftops regularly and therefore, often get asked where is good to go, where to eat, where's nice etc. Therefore, when Schpoonz & Forx kindly invited my Mum & I down for a dinner last week, I jumped at the opportunity and said "yes please!". I've been once before for a tasting but never a full meal, so as I'm sure you can imagine, I was very excited. Here's my honest opinion! 


First up, let's talk about how beautiful the venue is. Set inside the Hilton Hotel in Bournemouth town centre, it's super easy to get a bus or taxi, or park in the Winter Gardens Car Park round the corner.

When you arrive, take a left and you'll spot the bar and most importantly, the beautiful lighting. It was one of the first things my Mum pointed out; the industrial looking light bulbs and glowing signs really set the atmosphere. There's a bar, an area to wait for your table and plenty of friendly staff to welcome you. We were seated in a little booth, and walked straight past the chefs who have an open Kitchen. You can clearly see them working their magic, and it even allowed me to ask the chef a quick question about which fish to go for.


STARTER
As I was driving that night, I asked our waiter for a non-alcoholic cocktail. I didn't mind what, just something sweet and fruity. He presented us with two pinky orange drinks, which we enjoyed so much that we asked for another one. We were given a bowl of Artisan Sourdough Bread whilst we waited for our starters, and the salty butter and super soft loaf was enough for me to gage the quality of the food we were about to eat. The starters are a bit like tapas, you can pick from a selection to share which is perfect for someone like me who's super indecisive! I'm also one of those people who always envies what other people pick, so this style of Starter was really nice. We went for the Buttermilk Fried Chicken, Duck Sausage Roll and Braised Fried Mushroom. The Chicken was certainly my favourite. The amount of flavour in all three starters was amazing, my taste buds were buzzing!


MAIN
Living by the sea is a real treat for so many reasons, but having the ability to enjoy the best of the best when it comes to seafood, is certainly up there. With plenty of choice on the menu, we were a little undecided, but I haven't had a good fish dish in town for a while. So we both opted for the Whole Butterfield Tandoor Roasted Sea Bass and it was DIVINE. Even the skin was nice and I'm normally one to take it off. Crispy skin, perfectly cooked fish that fell off the bone, and coated in Olive Oil, Parsley, Oregano and Lemon. I'll definitely be ordering it again. For the sides, you get to choose! We couldn't pick between mash and fries, so we went for both (the beauty of having choice, eh?), along with a Sautéed Mixed Greens. I absolutely could not fault it.


DESSERT
We had a little treat that was off the menu, as the chefs had been testing some new desserts and had made up a mini tray of four for us. I was so full, I actually struggled to eat them, but the Sticky Toffee was a winner for me. They even gave us custard, cream and ice cream and let me tell you, the ice cream was proper madagascan vanilla. Absolutely delicious. 


It is without fail, that I can say I highly recommend Schpoonz & Forx. The service, the staff, the food, the atmosphere...all 100% worth the price. When the restaurant asked if I could offer any suggestions, I honestly couldn't fault it. They also do Sunday Lunch and Bottomless Brunch, so I'll definitely be bringing my boyfriend in for a date night soon. 10/10.
*Complimentary meal. All opinions are my own.
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