Friday, March 16

Supermarine Wood Fire Pizza | Woolston, Southampton


Saturday, March 10

Top Tips For A Job Interview

I've had a fair few jobs since I left college. I've tried everything including Customer Service, Marketing Manager, Social Media Manager, Administrator, Retail roles and even swinging through the trees as an Activity Instructor. Every interview I've ever had has been different, but I always try and prepare in the same way. Here are my best bits of advice if you've got a job interview coming up.


Sunday, February 18

Top 10 Tips For Moving House

Moving house is a big ordeal for anyone. There's a lot of change, organisation and work that goes into packing and moving. Sure, it's an exciting time, but I wish I'd known these simple little things in advance! Having moved a few times over the last few years, this is my best advice if you're moving.

Friday, February 9

Saying Goodbye To My First Flat

I made the decision with Benji that I was going to move in, and 12 days later, I was almost fully moved and completely set up again. Once I plant a seed in my head, that's it, I'm going for it. There's no holding me back! I'm the type of person who likes to just get things done, so when I knew I had to move my whole life into boxes, along with semi-decorating the new place at the same time, I looked at it like one big challenge, which I broke down into lots of little tasks. I've been so busy organising, packing, buying new furniture, clearing out old furniture, de-cluttering, changing my address and basically moving my whole life into someone else's house, that it hadn't occurred to me how much I'd miss my little place. I was almost distracted from the emotional side of moving house, which wasn't something I hadn't experienced before. Is it finally time to say goodbye to my little home?

When I moved in 18 months ago, it was a bit of whirlwind. I moved pretty quickly from my dads, back to my mums, knowing full well I didn't want to stay there very long. It was just temporary until I found my own place. I envisioned I'd probably be at Mum's for 3-6 months, but within a month, we found somewhere for me. I completed the paperwork, got all the right references, paid the deposit and before I knew it, I was picking up the keys. I didn't have much time to unpack at my Mums, it happened SO fast. We even went to Ikea and picked, bought and built the furniture all in the same weekend of getting the keys. Once I was in, I was SO content. I had FINALLY settled somewhere. It wasn't hard to say goodbye to my parents houses at all. I'd spent the past few years yoyoing between them, and both their places didn't feel like home to me anymore. I was desperate for my own space and independence, and my Mum was very supportive in understanding this. I had just landed myself a new job in Marketing, and although it was extremely scary taking on lots of bills and new responsibilities, I was ready.

The first few months felt pretty normal. I didn't need to adjust to life by myself, it just felt right. I was so busy at my new job, that the flat became a little cosy place of peace and serenity. No one was telling me where to put my shoes, when to do my washing, what I could watch on TV or how loud I could have my music. One of the rules at my dad's was 'no showering after 10pm', because the noise of the boiler would wake him and the dog (which is fine, I was just grateful for a roof over my head and a hot shower, so no biggie!). But you can imagine the grin on my face, when I stood in my shower gone 10pm for the first time, letting the hot water just fall on me, with that satisfying feeling that I could actually shower when I liked, AND for however long I liked, because I was paying the water bill myself now. It was a real 'pinch me' moment that I'd been waiting for. I could do whatever the hell I liked. It was MY house!

I spent the next 8 months with hardly any time at my flat. I was working 40-50 hours a week, going to events at the weekend and dedicating my time to my work and career. Until at the end of 2016, I decided to quit my job and found some freelancing work to run alongside my blog and channel. Suddenly, I was working from home for the first time ever. I transformed my 'dining table' into a 'desk', and lived the next year in a really happy bubble of what it was like to be self-employed. The flat became my work space too. I filmed collaborations for brands, edited all my videos, walked to the local coffee shop, and got savvy in adding decorations and touches to make the place feel even more like mine. I broke a few rules and put more nails in the wall for photos than I should have, but I always kept in clean and tidy. I was really proud of my place, and it was very much loved.

Going back to my new found freedom, I honestly believed I'd be having parties and people over all the time when I moved in. I even bought some shot glasses, wine glasses and plenty of plates and cutlery, thinking I'd be the hostess with the mostess! How was I wrong! I ended up hardly hosting, at all. I never had a party, only one spontaneous pre-drinks gathering with my closest pals. I loved my space so much, that I didn't want to share it. I didn't want anyone coming into it. It was my little bubble and I liked it that way. Besides, it was quite small and as I was working from home all day, I liked accepting any invitation which got me out of the flat, rather than kept me in it. I spent most evenings curled up in a ball, in a blanket, with a cup of tea and Gossip Girl on Netflix. I was so happy.

When I met Benji, it was obvious that the space was too small for us. Over time, we fell into a routine and spent most weekends at his house. As a freelancer, I was more flexible with my work commitments, and ended up staying Sundays and working from his house on Mondays. Eventually, my time was almost split 50/50 between the houses, and we started talking about moving in together. I'm a strong believer that you can't put a time frame on when people are ready for certain milestones in relationships, I've seen some couples get married after only a few months of knowing each other, whilst others have been together over 10 years. I knew I wanted to live with Benji pretty early on, but I let fate and time do it's thing.

At the beginning of 2018, we re-assessed our goals and plans for the year ahead, and I have two big ones. I want to continue to travel, whilst saving for a house. Not an easy task!

In terms of circumstances, I know we're quite lucky. Benji lives with his dad, who's hardly ever at home due to his work and relationship. This leaves the house empty 95% of the time, so it made sense for me to move in. His parents were very supportive and welcoming, and I'm extremely grateful to his Dad for his generosity in letting me live in the house so cheaply. Because of this, I can now start saving for my share of our mortgage, whilst accepting opportunities to travel and continue freelancing. The goal is to obviously buy with Benji one day, but we are aware that plans and circumstances can change and who knows, we may even rent between buying, but we'll see how things go. If anything were to ever happen to us (god forbid!), I can always move back in to my Mum's or rent again, but we're optimistic and have faith in how solid our relationship is.

Life has a funny way of working out, I often just go with my gut feeling and hope for the best. Some opportunities are not what I had planned, but that's okay. I can't control the future too much, but I can get a better control on my finances, and set the foundations for the next stage of mine and Benji's relationship. It's a big step, moving in together, but when you know, you know!

For now, I have a few weeks left to wrap things up at my flat, there's some furniture to go into storage and some cleaning I need to do, along with having professional carpet and window cleaners in. My last official day is February 20th, when I know I'll cry happy and sad tears, because my flat really was one of the best things to happen to me over the last two years. Finding my feet into adulthood, seeing my relationship with Benji blossom, transitioning from full time to freelance, cooking actual meals for the first time and more importantly, learning a lot about myself. That flat was more than just a flat, it holds so many happy memories, it changed my world. Even though it's the right thing and I'm so excited to live with my boyfriend, I'll be so gutted to let it go.

I'll always have a piece of my heart there.

ps. If you're interested in my moving updates and new house, watch my Weekly Vlogs every Monday at 6pm!

Monday, February 5

Schpoonz & Forx Restaurant Review | Bournemouth

I love living in Bournemouth. I shout about it from the rooftops regularly and therefore, often get asked where is good to go, where to eat, where's nice etc. Therefore, when Schpoonz & Forx kindly invited my Mum & I down for a dinner last week, I jumped at the opportunity and said "yes please!". I've been once before for a tasting but never a full meal, so as I'm sure you can imagine, I was very excited. Here's my honest opinion! 

First up, let's talk about how beautiful the venue is. Set inside the Hilton Hotel in Bournemouth town centre, it's super easy to get a bus or taxi, or park in the Winter Gardens Car Park round the corner.

When you arrive, take a left and you'll spot the bar and most importantly, the beautiful lighting. It was one of the first things my Mum pointed out; the industrial looking light bulbs and glowing signs really set the atmosphere. There's a bar, an area to wait for your table and plenty of friendly staff to welcome you. We were seated in a little booth, and walked straight past the chefs who have an open Kitchen. You can clearly see them working their magic, and it even allowed me to ask the chef a quick question about which fish to go for.

As I was driving that night, I asked our waiter for a non-alcoholic cocktail. I didn't mind what, just something sweet and fruity. He presented us with two pinky orange drinks, which we enjoyed so much that we asked for another one. We were given a bowl of Artisan Sourdough Bread whilst we waited for our starters, and the salty butter and super soft loaf was enough for me to gage the quality of the food we were about to eat. The starters are a bit like tapas, you can pick from a selection to share which is perfect for someone like me who's super indecisive! I'm also one of those people who always envies what other people pick, so this style of Starter was really nice. We went for the Buttermilk Fried Chicken, Duck Sausage Roll and Braised Fried Mushroom. The Chicken was certainly my favourite. The amount of flavour in all three starters was amazing, my taste buds were buzzing!

Living by the sea is a real treat for so many reasons, but having the ability to enjoy the best of the best when it comes to seafood, is certainly up there. With plenty of choice on the menu, we were a little undecided, but I haven't had a good fish dish in town for a while. So we both opted for the Whole Butterfield Tandoor Roasted Sea Bass and it was DIVINE. Even the skin was nice and I'm normally one to take it off. Crispy skin, perfectly cooked fish that fell off the bone, and coated in Olive Oil, Parsley, Oregano and Lemon. I'll definitely be ordering it again. For the sides, you get to choose! We couldn't pick between mash and fries, so we went for both (the beauty of having choice, eh?), along with a Sautéed Mixed Greens. I absolutely could not fault it.

We had a little treat that was off the menu, as the chefs had been testing some new desserts and had made up a mini tray of four for us. I was so full, I actually struggled to eat them, but the Sticky Toffee was a winner for me. They even gave us custard, cream and ice cream and let me tell you, the ice cream was proper madagascan vanilla. Absolutely delicious. 

It is without fail, that I can say I highly recommend Schpoonz & Forx. The service, the staff, the food, the atmosphere...all 100% worth the price. When the restaurant asked if I could offer any suggestions, I honestly couldn't fault it. They also do Sunday Lunch and Bottomless Brunch, so I'll definitely be bringing my boyfriend in for a date night soon. 10/10.
*Complimentary meal. All opinions are my own.

Sunday, January 21

The One Blogging Subscription You Need

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2018 marks my 7th year in the Blogosphere. In that time, I've been writing, filming, editing, photographing, scheduling, tweeting, socialising, networking, travelling and most importantly, learning. I love that there are always endless opportunities, streams of advice and new ways of blogging. I pride myself on consistency, being authentic and putting out content I genuinely believe in and like. But I am always learning. I enjoy pushing myself to improve, whether that be my photography, upgrading my equipment or doing an online course, and having a subscription to Blogosphere Magazine is something I recommend to everyone and anyone who's interested in this little hub that we call blogging.

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To me, it's more than a magazine. It's my blogging bible. It's my go-to grab for some inspiration. It's taken pride and place as my coffee table piece. It's a guide for independent minds who want to build their brands and social channels. Designed for bloggers, content creators and influencers, the team at Blogosphere have built the magazine to the best it's ever been. I can vouch for that myself, as I've been buying it since the beginning and the first copy was half the size in comparison to what it is now. With over 164 pages of advice, interviews, photography, events, Twitter chats and everything in between, it really is the ultimate Blogging tool. 

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This month marks my first year freelancing, and wow, what a year! I've been more selective than ever on where and how I invest my money, so when I say it's totally worth subscribing, you're hearing it from someone who's been genuinely buying it since the first copy, and actively subscribed towards the end of the last year. To be honest, I don't know why it took me so long, because I don't have a local stockist to get my hands on it so easily, and had to hunt them down individually. It's actually cheaper to subscribe, saves me the faff of remembering to get a copy, and is a lovely little suprise when it comes through my door. If that's not enough, you also benefit from:

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Thursday, January 4

Tips For Attending Blogging Events

In my six and a half years blogging and making videos, I've been to my fair share of events. Blogging events can come in a variety of styles or formats including PR Launches, Restaurant Reviews, Meetups, Talks, Trade Shows and many more. I've been to everything from the Cosmopolitan Blog Awards, to my local Bournemouth Bloggers Brunch. As I'm writing this, I'm sat a five minute walk away from the venue for the Blogosphere Christmas Festival, where I'm speaking on a panel for the first time ever. Nervous, yes. (Update: it went great, I think! Huge thanks to Albertine for being a great host, and my fellow panelists featured above.) If you've been to a few, or never attended any Blogging Events before, then here are a few of my tips!

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